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He Wanders

Not All Who Wander Are Lost

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Created on 2009-12-15 07:01:37 (#464560), last updated 2019-01-10 (5 weeks ago)

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Name:he_wanders
Location:New York, United States of America
I'm Nick, a masculine of centre genderqueer dude living in Western New York with an intent to head off to the Pacific Northwest sometime in the future. This is one of several of blogs that I keep on a variety of websites all over the place. I'd link to them, but I'd like to keep them separate from this one. There are several things you should know about me, but we'll get to that all in a minute.

This journal is put under an age filter for language and sexuality because of the occasional usage of profanity and sexual themes. So, that's a warning for anyone who might be interested in reading this.

Here are some important points, which are sort of the rules for reading this journal.


  • I am an intersectional feminist. If your feminism isn't intersectional, it is rubbish.

  • I don't support TERFs, TWEFs, or Truscum.

  • I write on occasions, but very little of it makes it online, alas. I'm trying to get better about this, because I really need to be doing it, honestly.

  • I dropped out of HS at 17 due to mental health issues. I've since gone on to get my diploma and am now working on a degree. I expect to graduate in May of '19, and go forward to get my BA/BFA in '21.

  • I'm extremely queer. Like, really. All of the queer.

  • I'm a bit of a hermit. For the most part, I try to be social, but there's no guarantee that it's going to happen. Social situations are draining, and it takes a while for me to recharge.

  • I'm trans and in the middle of transition (on hormones, awaiting surgery). My pronouns are masculine or neutral (He or They), which I expect to have honoured. Calling me by female pronouns will get you corrected, and if you continue, it will get you told off.

  • A lot of times, I use my journal as a place to vent my frustrations. Sometimes, I find myself in a situation where saying what's on my mind may not result in the best possible outcome, so I use blogs to do that.

  • I live with depression and am being medicated for it.

  • I support self diagnosing. Not everybody has acces to safe and compassionate health care and sometimes, it's all people have.

  • If I fuck up, please let me know. I want to do and be better.

  • I'm into weird shit. I tag accordingly, but it's really weird, y'all.











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